∵∠B和∠C的平分线相交于点F,∴∠DBF=∠FBC,∠BCF=∠ECF;∵DE∥BC,∴∠DFB=∠FBC=∠FBD,∠EFC=∠FCB=∠ECF,∴DF=DB,EF=EC,即DE=DF+FE=DB+EC=9.故选A.