为什么很多女性宁愿成为剩女,也不愿意降低要求嫁人?

2025年04月08日 08:52
有5个网友回答
网友(1):

你愿意从一个工作好、福利好、工资高还没人约束你的单位,跳槽到一个工作差、福利无、工资低还处处受人约束的单位吗?单身时还能隔三差五开小灶,享受下人生,结了婚只能青菜豆腐馒头咸菜,这婚,你愿意结吗?结婚最起码也要找个能和你一起隔三差五开小灶的。

网友(2):

别降低要求嫁人,不值得,你要求低了,他的价值观,人生观跟你一点也不合,你想奋斗,他只愿守着老家,你说要花钱接受继续教育,他说你要存钱,别乱花,他说他父母抚养他不容易,你要对他父母好,却不知你也是父母捧在手掌心的公主,离别自己的兄弟姐妹,来到他家,伺候公婆,孩子,自己赚钱花,还要被他们家说,特别是你想要发展,他家里人跟你说都嫁人了,带好孩子,钱该男人挣,你就信以为真,结果他却不给钱给你,还说你不是会赚钱吗?你怎么没存钱?

网友(3):

感觉这些就是些认为结婚婚后生活什么的都是男方的责任,自己就是去享受的,一点不愿付出的

网友(4):

再剩十年或者十五年还能有如此豪言壮语我真心佩服,至于现在嘛我就看看,一群不知道到一定年龄自己需要负什么责任大谈不能降低单身时候生活水平的群体能有脸喷也是没谁了

网友(5):

难道一定要嫁给一个不如自己的?精准扶贫呐?女人怀孕养孩子不能上班的时候,男人挣的钱够养活一家几口麽?你当是有口饭吃就够了?

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